One of my personal goals to myself this year has been to bring more balance into my life. My business has been so busy these last two years, which is a blessing I'm very thankful for, but sometimes I feel as though I've been neglecting me and not doing the things that I love to do... such as reading books and watching movies (that are not of the G-rated variety) on a consistent basis. So these past few months, I have been trying to do more of that and have found I am reconnecting with the things that I love so much and make me, me. Of course, there are several things I like to do in my personal time (other than photography): drink wine and have good talks with close girlfriends, practice yoga (its been a while on this one thanks to some tendanitus in my wrist), travel, and above all spend time with my family. But this post is about books and movies I have been able to catch recently::
I think the thing that impacted me the most was the thought that this could happen to anyone and how your life can change in 10 seconds. I'm sure as photographers, many of us have found ourselves pulled into the lens, pulled into something we are photographing, where we do in fact take our eyes off our children for a second too long and they could be gone in an instant. I wont spoil the ending and it is hard to put down because you so want to get to the end to find out what happened to Emma.
Now I digress into the consequence of reading such a book: I liked the book overall - and it's well written and engaging - but as a Mom, it is difficult for me to read or watch things that deal with stories about kidnappings, abuses, traumas, neglect, or kids dying before their time. I can barely even watch the evening news anymore, because every single story it seems is about children being killed, children being beaten, or kidnapped, or intentionally left at airports by their mother, and it literally -- literally -- makes me ill. Something in my heart changed when I become a Mom and I want to protect and love all these damaged children even though I know I cannot. And as much as I want be knowledgeable of world events and the news, it's hard to take it all in sometimes, and my thoughts about human beings in general shifts to a more negative state than normal. Not a place I want to stay too long.
So bottom line, it's a good book and quick read, but if you are a parent you might find it hard to always separate the fear from your own child.
E-Myth Revisited: Why Most Small Businesses Don't Work and What to Do About It
Simply put - a great book. A must read for any small business owner. This book was recommended to me by a few people over the years and I finally picked it up and read it a few months ago. I then gave it to my husband and he read it in a week and then bought 3 copies for clients to read. It describes [quite accurately] the life cycle of small businesses and outlines why the majority of them fail. And how to create a business that is more capable of surviving over the long term. Even if your business goal is to stay small, it is a still a great book in terms of strategy, thinking big and evolving.
The Boleyn Inheritance - The follow up to The Other Boleyn Girl which chronicles the women that followed after Queen Anne Boleyn's downfall including those who played a role in her demise. If you were a fan of The Other Boleyn Girl (one of my Top 10), then you will probably like this one too. The characters are just as well drawn out and the story, while not quite as complex as the first, is also incredibly engaging.
The Kite Runner:: Another book-to-movie-adaption, but I liked this one. I thought the movie did a good job following the book and developed the characters quite well. I found this to be a thought-provoking and moving story of betrayal, guilt, and redemption told through another culture. 3 1/2 stars.
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